what do do if the Yoni Egg does not want to stay in your Yoni or even enter the gate?
from my experience this is what women think:
- what is going on? what is going wrong?
- is something wrong with my Yoni Egg?
- what is wrong with me?
if the Yoni Egg does not want to stay in your Yoni, there can be plenty of reasons for that. it is almost impossible to list them all.
however, let’s track down this occasional or even regular experience, so it can help you to find some peace. remember to ask yourself following questions and do follow up for yourself:
what time of the year is it right now?
especially with the beginning of spring it happens that the body is pretty busy with other subtle things we are not aware of. in this time of energetic change, of letting go, when detox takes place, the body adjusts to growth, feeding, blossoming. the focus is a different one. take the conscious look on the inside, the womb is maybe not so much in focus. or… when winter brings us the quality of contraction…
what phase of the moon are you in?
could it be that you are retaining water, as is often the case during full moon? in this phase the yoniverse could be bit ‘contracted’ and your Yoni Egg might not find enough space. on the other hand, on new moon days the body has a tendency to let go and does not like to hold things.
what phase of my own cycle am I in right now?
is my period just about to start soon? before menstruating our uterus is growing to three times its normal size, which is why there just isn’t enough space. certainly you noticed this also by increased bladder pressure or a bloated belly … the Yoni Egg may be recognised by the body as a little ‘too much’ in this time. try it after the period.
how is my digestion?
did I overindulge or is my digestion a usual challenge? is eventually constipation my permanent condition? or is there so much in the flow, and you are releasing sooo much, that the body doesn’t feel like dealing with vaginal well-being on top of all other digestive matters … the more pressure in the pelvis, the more stressed the body feels. you’ll find a separate article on digestive health and Yoni Eggs.
note: the healthier and more regular your digestion, the easier the Yoni Egg will stay in it.
which phase of the day am I in?
do I have some time for myself and moments of rest? can I consciously get connected to my womb? or am I distracted and already have to take care of the next point on my to-do-list? did I insert the Yoni Egg between finishing the laundry and on my way to work?
ask yourself particularly in this moment: how much is my self-worth? can I create some space for my very personal intimate experiences?
which phase of life am I currently in?
I have a lot of stress, I am very busy on the outside, I take care of my children, my partner, loads of work …?
even if we don’t perceive it as such… stress can prevent us from consciously connecting to our inner self and particularly the Yoni. no surprise it’s not working out with the Yoni Egg. physically we intend to do “tighten up” and the Yoni Egg does not find its way inside.
REALLY … WHY WOULD IT? WOULD YOU VOLUNTARILY WANT TO STAY IN A STRESS LOADED ENVIRONMENT? OR WOULD YOU TRY TO GET OUT AND FIND A CALM SPACE NO MATTER WHAT?
what’s my intention when wearing the Yoni Egg?
DO I SEE IT AS A ‘EXERCISE TOOL’ OR AM I REALLY READY TO CONNECT TRULY MY WOMB?
the Yoni Egg brings more consciousness to your Yoni and the focus of its work is clearly on practicing mindfulness – with our womb, our intuition, and our unique self. this little wizard is neither a training device, nor a ‘Yoni treadmill’.
the wonderful physical effects are happening on a subtle and soft level.
when women can’t hold the Yoni Egg, I’ll hear automatically the standard question: ‘Violeta, do i need a larger Yoni Egg?’
think logically. heheee … this is not about stuffing a hole… a bigger Yoni Egg is heavier and therefore you’ll have more weight to hold. the matched Yoni Egg is just right for you and your Yoni.
and even if in self-doubt and the inner critics are really annoying: you are perfect the way your are. and… everything is right with you! it’s maybe just not the right moment to wear a Yoni Egg.
for the maximum benefits you’ll better practice s a conscious ‘handling’ of the Yoni Egg. and this can not be done ‘by the way’. remember that you’ve spent your entire lifetime getting where you are. things will change over time … transformations do not happen within a few days.
IT’S LIKE COMPLETING A PERFECT ARTWORK, THE RESULT MIGHT COME IN ONE SINGLE MOMENT OR IT MIGHT REQUIRE SOME MORE FINESSE. PATIENCE IS THE KEY.
likewise, too frequent wearing, especially in the beginning, can be too much and stress the body. Imagine if you were starting with jogging… would you spontaneously go for a marathon, or rather build your capacity steadily? the Yoni Egg feels the stress you might not be aware of and communicates it simply by not wanting to be part of the game.
take time to connect to your Yoni Egg.
take time for the appreciation of your womb.
take time for the relationship with yourself.
release the pressure. you will achieve much more.
wear your Yoni Egg at home, if you have a few minutes for yourself and some space to get a connection with all your senses. try to lay down in the beginning. feel inside yourself and find out what you really want.
maybe you want a sensual massage, to be in nature or just some dancing? maybe lounging on your sofa or playing with the kids.
maybe the moment for Yoni Egg is just not right and it’s only your mind that wants to wear it NOW … in the same way we living in modern times… control is everything. and we wonder why we feel unwell?
sometimes we immediately feel the wonderful changes that this little wizard brings to our lives. sometimes it takes several weeks before ‘feel’ability develops and an effect becomes apparent. these perceptions can also be very subtle. maybe something releases in the lower back and this part of the body starts feeling better. maybe suddenly the digestion works better, our period feels different, we feel more desire, have an improved sex-drive, are more gentle and mellow, feel our orgasm more intensively, or experience it after all …
the Yoni Egg increases your sensitivity and also makes subtle changes noticeable. it invites you to re-perceive and trust your intuition.
NOURISH YOURSELF. YOUR YONI EGG WILL DEFINITELY SUPPORT YOU.
and one more thing: it is impossible to mention everything and even more impossible to have the right answer for every women in this article. if you feel there is something you’d like to find out with me, or if you want to build up your own relaxation mood… maybe you encounter options that were not yet or that are especially addressed in this article, please book a PussyTalk with me. intuitively, I accompany you on your own Yoni Egg journey. I can then respond individually to your condition, ask you also explicit questions and we use a dialogue to explore this together.
your inner peace paired with a shining Yoni’verse and the radiant beauty of your Being is my deepest wish …