{"id":11863,"date":"2020-03-27T10:15:40","date_gmt":"2020-03-27T10:15:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yoniegg.rocks\/?p=11863"},"modified":"2023-05-26T09:56:03","modified_gmt":"2023-05-26T09:56:03","slug":"lelts-talk-about-s-e-x","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yoniegg.rocks\/en\/lelts-talk-about-s-e-x\/","title":{"rendered":"LET&#8217;S TALK ABOUT S&#8217;E&#8217;X"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">WHILE IT&#8217;S TREMBLING AND SHAKING<\/h3>\n<p>&#8230; a handful of love always helps, especially when it&#8217;s right on my Yoni!<\/p>\n<p>for most of us, it seems absurd to think of sexuality in times of crisis. let alone live this sexuality out actively.<\/p>\n<p>you might be thinking now:<br \/>\nS&#8217;e&#8217;x in times of Corona?<br \/>\nfor real? is she gone crazy?<br \/>\nlike if the world had no other things to deal with?<\/p>\n<p>I know how this feels. I often caught myself when stress was slowly creeping into my life and the love-making-motivation grew less and less until my libido completely shrank.<\/p>\n<p>my Yoni probably thought: &#8216;how boring my human is. let&#8217;s rather be silent because she doesn&#8217;t hear me anyway.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>well &#8230; we can look at it in many ways. S&#8217;e&#8217;x is and remains one of the strongest forces that exists.<br \/>\njust consider that it is: as powerful as to create new life.<br \/>\nhow valuable this creative power is. we are all here, you are actually reading it, because this potential has existed and still exists.<\/p>\n<p>it is also a fact that all tense energies and intense emotions can be transformed through S&#8217;e&#8217;x. I&#8217;ll just say: S&#8217;e&#8217;x M&#8217;a&#8217;g&#8217;i&#8217;c. anyone who knows the ritual knows how powerful it can be.<\/p>\n<p>pleasure is a neuro-physiological process we all were born with. it serves us on many levels.<\/p>\n<p>S&#8217;e&#8217;x is often the loser during the fight, flight and freeze mode. therefore we might suspect that it&#8217;s not meaningful during this time. actually it has the tendency to fall asleep &#8211; since we don&#8217;t need the sexual organs in this mode &#8211; this is usually the first thing to go down when stressed.<\/p>\n<p>of course, you can activate your sexual strength to boost your immune system through the hormonal kick.<br \/>\ntry to practice it often.<br \/>\nwith yourself and others.<\/p>\n<p>nature has dedicated some little helpers for that. biochemical messengers that communicate between the organs. like the nerves, but a bit swifter.<br \/>\nlet me introduce you some of those who support you:<\/p>\n<p>Endorphins are the body&#8217;s own opiates. they relieve pain and provide a little kick of happiness.<\/p>\n<p>Oxytocin strengthens the immune system and reduces pain sensitivity. they discovered that this binding hormone promotes trust, empathy and generosity.<\/p>\n<p>Cortisol affects the blood vessels and metabolism. in healthy doses it increases our viability.<\/p>\n<p>Serotonin and norepinephrine are commonly called &#8216;happiness hormones&#8217; as neurotransmitters along with with Dopamine. they are the ones that create the &#8216;rose-coloured-glasses&#8217; effect.<\/p>\n<p>Dopamine itself ensures well-being and satisfaction. it promotes balance, which in itself could also prevent depression.<\/p>\n<p>Testosterone, which is present not only in males, but also smaller amounts in women, lowers cholesterol levels and sharpens the mind.<\/p>\n<p>this hormonal cocktail therefore provides a feeling of safety, security, calmness. something that can provide an incredible boost of energy in stressful times and achieve a RelaxationBoost effect.<\/p>\n<p>if this sounds to dry for you&#8230; I&#8217;ll invite you to remember your love making. surely you know the &#8216;floating-on-clouds-feeling&#8217; after a sweet union.<\/p>\n<p>the above mentioned, along with many others, make up the best defense system in the world. even if you experience it being a bit sleepy right now, it can be activated over and over again. your body knows how to release those feel-good and bonding-hormones.<\/p>\n<p>those will not change the circumstances you are in, but will definitely change your perception of same.<br \/>\nfeeling anxiety-reducing and calming influences in moments of tension often has a supportive effect.<br \/>\nfeeling your own primal power can be life-saving.<br \/>\nliving your pleasure out can be liberating.<\/p>\n<p>so &#8230; connect to your your favourite love-making-human. make love and save yourself &#8230; it might change your world.<\/p>\n<p>stay in love.<br \/>\nalways.<\/p>\n<p>Violeta Labella<\/p>\n<p>p.s. if you don&#8217;t have your favourite love-sharing-human next to you, learn to practice loving yourself. after all it&#8217;s the most important connection you have.<\/p>\n<div style=\"font-size: .9em;\">Image: pexels.com<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>WHILE IT&#8217;S TREMBLING AND SHAKING&#8230; a handful of love always helps, especially when it&#8217;s right on my Yoni!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":43054,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11863","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yoniegg.rocks\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11863","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yoniegg.rocks\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yoniegg.rocks\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yoniegg.rocks\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yoniegg.rocks\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11863"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/yoniegg.rocks\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11863\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":43060,"href":"https:\/\/yoniegg.rocks\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11863\/revisions\/43060"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yoniegg.rocks\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/43054"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yoniegg.rocks\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11863"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yoniegg.rocks\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11863"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yoniegg.rocks\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11863"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}