I can’t feel my Yoni Egg!

WHAT’S WRONG WITH ME, ‘DOWN THERE’?

You’ve read the reviews on the internet…

Women enthusiastically reporting their experience with their Yoni Egg and the incredible changes it brought into their lives.

They say:

“My period is more balanced”

“My back feels better”

“My pelvis is suddenly revived”

“I have better orgasms with the Yoni Egg” 

“The menopause feels lighter”

“My sex drive changes”

And you?

All you can think is:

“I can’t feel my Yoni Egg. Nothing’s happening… Really?! I can’t feel ANYTHING?! Is there something wrong with me??”

I’m here to tell you not to worry. After all, worrying only causes wrinkles on your forehead and you should get rid of them immediately (the worries, not the wrinkles).

Because none of us is the same and because there are different ways to experience your Yoni Egg, not everyone will have the same adventure. You may also find that your experience with your Yoni Egg changes similarly to every other natural cycle created by nature.

Here are a few different ways that your Yoni Egg might ‘introduce’ itself.

The EARLY BIRD

When I select your magician or pack it up for mailing, there’s a slight tingle – you can sense that it’s started its journey to you.

The LIGHT BREEZE

You are connected with it before even wearing it. Simply looking at it or placing it in your hands feels familiar, like seeing an old but much-loved friend after a long time.

The ROARING WAVE

You are experiencing big changes within your womb space when you insert your Yoni Egg – both physically and energetically. This experience is inexplicable because it feels like a clean-up – invigorating, loosening, warming, pulsating.

The DANCING FLAME

While wearing it you do not feel anything at all. You simply think “what a load of nonsense, I can’t feel my Yoni Egg at all, why am I even bothering?!”. Then you remove your Yoni Egg and your pelvis begins to perform an unknown dance. The kind of dance that nobody sees but that you can feel throughout your body.

The HIDDEN STORM

Maybe the changes are only subtly perceived. Some gentle pulling and a light softness, but nothing special. Then you catch yourself having a bearable period, a more intimate love act with your partner, or some shameless, wild sex with a new lover.
Whatever it is, it feels different.
Your experience is different.
The intensity is different.
You are different.
Something has changed, and you will slowly discover to what extent this experience is caused by your new Yoni Egg.

I would like to point out that the contents of this article are related specifically to not being able to feel your Yoni Egg when inserted in your vaginal canal. If your clitoris has no feeling, I hope that this article will offer you the help and support that you need.

Find out more about my circles and challenges – our ‘Orgasm-Challenge’ is particularly popular amongst the women I work with.

 

How to use your Yoni Egg

If you’re struggling to feel your Yoni Egg when inserted but want to enjoy the magical experience of connecting with these precious stones, have a read of this post all about how to use your Yoni Egg. It’s not all about insertion…

Don’t worry!

You remember when I said ‘don’t worry’. Well, I’ll say it again – don’t worry!

I’d like to assure you that you are NOT wrong.

Let’s take a tour through your pelvis and, specifically, the pelvic floor.

 

I can’t feel my Yoni Egg – how this relates to your pelvic floor

The pelvic floor – aka, the mystical muscle – consists, anatomically speaking, of myofascial tissue. And fascia is known as the greatest sensory organ of our body.

You may have heard that fascia training is only applicable to time spent in the gym. Well, I’m here to tell you that it goes way beyond that! What became a fitness trend is actually one of the most complex parts of our body. And no, you won’t learn everything you need to know about fascia in a speedy weekend workshop.

I could lose myself in this, but I’ll try not to. As a fascia expert with a therapeutic approach, I could talk about it for hours. Instead, I’ll give you this link if you’re interested in learning more about fascia. Enjoy this little visual demonstration that I created to guide you through releasing pelvic tension. 

In short: fascia hardens when under stress and tension like any other tissue in our body – it reacts by hardening, bonding, and stiffening. It becomes numb.

Here’s a simple example to help you imagine what I’m talking about …

You wear your handbag on your shoulder, probably the same shoulder every time. So you always have the same weight and straps resting on the same side of your body. Your shoulder reacts to it by tightening, becoming firm, stiff and numb. The other shoulder is participating intensely because it’s trying to make up for it.

At some point, you’ve spent so much time carrying your bag on this shoulder that you decide to treat yourself to a massage.

This massage might be very strong and dynamic or wonderfully delicate and feather-light. Occasionally a massage will cause an immediate change, sometimes it will take a little longer, other times, we’ll feel as though there’s no change at all!

The experience of a massage is a very individual feeling and something that none of us will experience in the same way.

It’s very similar to using a Yoni Egg. Your little magician will intuitively find the spot in your Yoni where something needs to be done. It will start working, kneading, and massaging your Yoni. It begins to solve whatever needs attention at this particular time. Once the Yoni Egg has done its work, it will find its way out.

Like a good massage therapist, the masseuse also knows when enough work has been done to a particular body part. Whether we perceive it or not is very individual and we might not always agree with the masseuse, but they know best! An effect has happened and will show up after some time. How long that takes depends on how deep the body has ‘stored’ the tension. Remember the bag? You might still feel that weight on your shoulders, even if you took it down after some time. That’s because your deeper levels of fascia are remembering and storing the tension.

To release these deep stored tensions and numbness you need time and patience. You need this patience with yourself, your Yoni Egg, and your Yoni.

Give yourself this time, love, and opportunity to wear your Yoni Egg mindfully.

Conclusion

With the help of your Yoni Egg, you will bring more awareness into your Yoniverse as you begin to awaken that part slowly (but surely!). Because the goal is to gently and sustainably soften your hardened areas. To turn the insensitive parts towards greater ease and understanding, slowly and deliberately.

Give yourself the time and the opportunity to integrate these experiences and make them fully usable for you. Let them flow into every area of ​​your life. Integrate them into your everyday experiences of self-pleasure, making love, and learning about your body.

Your Yoni Egg teaches you self-respect, love, and patience. And thus, it keeps you on your way to yourself, your awesome body, and a whole new world of miraculous, multi-layered, and pleasurable experiences. It will guide you towards connecting with the woman that you already are.

Learn more about personal coaching related to your Yoniverse and how to use your Yoni Egg in the best possible way.

May your Yoni blossom up!


Yours

Violeta Labella


Psssst! … did you know that you can relax tensions and adhesions of your Yoni with our Yoni Wands? You might find it as sweet to surrender as I do.

Image: Claudia Kaleita Photography