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with the 9 most important tips for comfortable pubic hair removal
there is always that moment of silence when I ask women if they are getting rid of their pubic hair. shame is most of the time the underlying feel that comes across in this situation.
‘Shame’ for something that should make you feel uncomfortable – and you should not talk about – is wrong… in my opinion.
let’s start by dissolving the concept of shame.
it’s 2020. meanwhile we’ve been working for generations that our Yoni no longer has to be a spot of shame, but a place of abundance.
… as we have clarified this quickly – let’s move now to the actual topic.
many years ago when I started wearing my first Yoni Egg something like womb awareness happened to me for the first time.
not that I hadn’t felt anything before. but it was more of a passive thing. much of what I simply just recognized in the past or didn’t really grasp at all seemed suddenly a bit clearer and worth considering.
talking about it or not… for many women, intimate shaving has long been part of the daily routine.
and this is not only a trend, this practice has existed since ancient times. people have tended to remove hair from the body for many years.
in the past, however, this was more of a protective function, which would avoid a base for settlement to lice or fleas.
in Arab countries for example, where I used to live for quite some time, large parts of the body hair is removed regularly. despite the little soft ones on my forearms, other women would tease me, pull my fluff and call me the hairy one. that often made me smile… especially because I love observing the diversity of cultures. looking at my head, they were right. curly antennas pointing wildly in all directions… but my arms?
today we mostly depilate in order to fit that common beauty image. trying to make our pussy radiate innocence. but, generally speaking…
how good is it really to shave off the pubic hair?
does it make sense to have pubic hair or is it better to remove it from the Yoni? does this action harm us in any way?
Many women feel that it is unsanitary and dirty to let their Yoni hair grow.
but there is also an aesthetic-erotic component. we found out that too often the partner’s desires also play a role in the need for a pube removal.
when working with women or in my Yoni Egg workshops I figure out that more and more young girls start removing their pubic hair in a very early phase of their lives. especially driven by external influences such as social media and the competition amongst friends for who will grow up first. as in other areas, we women like to let ourselves be influenced and irritated by beauty ideas. at times I get the feeling that we are subject to peer pressure.
how difficult it is to withstand this trend can be seen in the fact that women who do not shave, usually need to have strong self-confidence and self-esteem in order to stand up to evaluative looks and comments. sometimes it feels like people are more disturbed by other people’s hair growth than the owners of the hair themselves.
many women argue the feeling that hair on the body is unhygienic and that they remove it in order to be able to clean the respective areas better. however, it is not that a shaved or non-shaved intimate area is less hygienic. even a hairy Yoni can be properly cleaned and cared for – like… really.
you can find some of my secrets about womb health and self care in my Yoni health tips: https://yoniegg.rocks/en/smelly-itchy-dry-12-secrets-for-a-healthy-and-happy-yoni/
since we can easily remove our hair from other areas of our body without causing much damage, shaving the intimate parts initially seems really uncomplicated to us. but this is where the skin is very sensitive and minor injuries can easily occur when shaving. bacteria and viruses then have an easier time penetrating the skin. the many sweat glands in the genital area are a great ground to facilitate their growth. pubes actually ensure that the Yoni area remains drier, thereby reducing the chance of bacterial growth.
of course, there is the question of whether it makes sense to remove the pubic hair and how it influences us.
specialists say that hair protects the Yoni from diseases. that it practically forms a protective coat and ensures that venereal diseases are more difficult to settle in our Yoni, as they first have to find their way through the hairy layer.
a Yoni without hair lacks protection against bacteria and germs, and fungal infections also have an easier time, since shaved skin is often a bit damp and therefore more susceptible to diseases.
shaving with warm water opens the pores so that the hair is cut very deep in the skin. as soon as the hair follicle pushes through the skin again, inflammation can occur.
after shaving, you’ve probably already had this experience: tiny pimples develop, or hair grows in, if it can no longer get through the skin – often sorted out by a dermatologist in the end. these constant inflammatory phenomena can weaken the womb area and clear the way for further infections.
our intimate hair has other talents besides its protective function of our mucous membranes from infections. it distributes a lot of pheromones – a messenger for the transmission of information between individuals of one species. pheromones play a crucial role in the level of intimacy with a partner. learn more about the interaction of our hormones for s’experience in this article: https://yoniegg.rocks/en/lelts-talk-about-s-e-x/
and… did you know as well that our pubic hair is curly, so that the pheromones get caught in the curliest of curls and communicate with potential lovers your ability of making love.
even if we do not consciously perceive it, our hair as a transmitter helps to pass on important information about sympathy and antipathy to our partner or other people. by completely removing the Yoni hair we take away this form of subtle communication.
our intimate hair has the beautiful ability to transmit sensations. the individual hairs are like small antennas that carry touch to the skin. tiny touches of the hair are passed on to the skin and are therefore better and more perceptible to us, similar and in a somewhat less obvious form to a cat’s whiskers, which serve as an additional sense of touch. by leaving the Yoni hair as it is, we enable our inner kitten to perceive even more sensation of the smallest touches more intensely in lovemaking.
Pussy sensations deluxe!
last but not least, there is something attractive, and undeniable, when the woman’s genital area is not directly recognizable, but is – at least for the very first moment – hidden by the hair. it has a surprising effect, something that you have to get closer to to recognise it better. there is something mysterious, something veiled and hidden that you have to discover first.
whereas the smoothly shaved Yoni, which from my surveys is often favored by men, reveals everything at first and possibly has a very immaculate, virgin and pure character.
in this way sexuality has to be discovered in different ways and playfulness can contribute to the not-so-direct approach.
a woman with pubic hair who wears it with dignity and is aware of herself can in turn make it clear that she fully lives her sexual power and is in utter harmony with herself.
wearing your Yoni hair can have many advantages and disadvantages. however, the benefits outweigh the health aspects. our Yoni is protected by our hair, and if we let her have this protective coat, she is deeply grateful for it.
however, it is up to every woman to decide for herself. after all, the most important thing is the well-being that comes with the awareness of your Yoni’s needs.
If you don’t want to do without hair removal, here are a few tips for proper intimate job:
Please note the following when shaving:
- never shave on dry skin! always use a fresh razor, because bacteria can also frolic here.
- a gentle peeling before shaving can loosen the smallest particles of skin, sebum and dirt on the skin, simplify shaving and prevent ingrown hairs as the growth channels are cleaned. peeling generally softens the skin.
- before wet shaving, trim the hair to approx. 3 – 5 mm with an electric shaver or scissors
- always shave in the direction of your hair growth
- use a mild shaving foam, which should only reach the outer genital area, since shaving foam can also negatively influence the Yoni flora and ensures that infections have a easier time penetrating here. especially when the protective barrier of the hair is missing.
- particular caution is required in the area of the inner vulva lips and your golden gate! make sure that you are very gentle with yourself here and do not hurt yourself
- shaving with cold water inhibits inflammation.
- dab your skin thoroughly after shaving with a soft towel, as heavy rubbing can promote skin irritation. apply an anti-inflammatory / regenerating cream and avoid further unnecessary irritation of the skin (sun, pool etc.) for this I love fresh aloe vera.
- let your skin breathe some air after shaving. this is particularly suitable for breathable underwear, but also loose clothing – don’t wear polyester lace panties on that day (or better in general).
or simply let go of your underwear, especially overnight, the Yoni is happy with a bit of fresh air
in the summer months it is almost a classic: women in particular catch unpleasant infections in the swimming pool. remember: the hair is keeping the spores away from the genitals.
I preferred to observe and ultimately feel for myself how my Yoni did in phases with or without pubes. the difference soon became very obvious to me. naturality is my favorite.
in my preparations to wear a Yoni Egg and practice some Yoni Egg exercises, I had a little cosy nest for Jade Egg while I was tuning in with my boobies using my very special breast massage oil: https://yoniegg.rocks/en/product/breast-massage-oil/.
if you are German speaking, you will also find a gentle preparation exercise for your Yoni Egg experience on my YouTube channel: Violeta Labella
it doesn’t matter whether you are down there ‘nectarine’-, ‘peach stubble’-style or even wildly out of control this summer, your curls radiating pheromonal signals: yes, I love…
enjoy every breath. and your Yoni will too.
stay sexy.
always.
yours
Violeta Labella
p.s. my 28-day online LebensLust program gives you access to an increased self-confidence and refined sensations of pleasure, so that you learn to condition and recognize that lust is something essential and something inherent in us, and therefore completely independent of the pubic hair removal or Yoni Egg. (in German only)
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