YOUR FIRST TIME – WITH A YONI EGG

6 support steps on how to use a Yoni Egg as a virgin

you have probably found a lot of information on how to use Yoni Eggs or what to do with it and what to do when they get stuck, and the magical juiciness that they can bring to a practice of connecting with your Yoni…
you have read about the benefits, the pelvic floor toning, vaginismus support etc. etc. etc.
yet personally I have not come across tips, tricks and re-assurances on how to use a Yoni Egg if one has not previously had penetrative sex.

here are a few words specifically for those of you who resonate with this!
don’t worry little sister, I have not forgotten you.

first and foremost, let’s get these concerns out of the way:

same goes for if you’ve never stuck anything up there, using a Yoni Egg is totally okay, safe, and might I add – fun!

now… I understand that it may be scary to put the Yoni Egg up there if you’ve never tried putting anything up there before. this fear makes a lot of sense. and if you’re wondering… oh my god, what if the Yoni Egg doesn’t come out? will I have to live with it in me forever? I’m screwed… listen up… here are my suggestions on what to do when your Yoni Egg gets stuck.

I can assure you… it’s safe and easy to remove your Yoni Egg whenever you encounter any fears or issues with the Yoni Egg deciding to stay inside you for longer. you know… we do also offer Yoni Eggs that you can use with a floss for easy removal.

so today I’m going to give you some tips and tricks that may help you ease into this new practice that your Yoni will beautifully thank you for.

1.  Size does matter!

although it may be tempting and logically make sense to use a smaller Yoni Egg at first, I recommend to start with a larger Yoni Egg and work your way up in sizes in time. this is because larger Yoni Eggs are easier for the vaginal muscles to grip on to. my very own and unique personal matching service will give you the right size and quality of Yoni Egg. most of the time even that mentioned drilled version. this is how I pour my magic out… and ultimately if you feel more comfortable with a drilled Yoni Egg… why not?
So reach out to moi to get matched up with your new Yoni Egg buddy.

2. Breathe

it sounds so simple, but we know how difficult it can be to regulate our breaths when we are nervous or scared about something. take several deep breaths before inserting the Yoni Egg. this also helps with relaxing the Yoni and helps open it to receive the Yoni Egg. if you are holding your breath, it creates tension in all areas of your body, including the Yoni.

… and we want her to feel relaxed as she takes the Yoni Egg in.

if you’ve never heard that taking care of your Yoni is as vital for the Yoni as for your overall health, find some helpful tips on best ways to treat your Yoni like the Goddess she is.

3. Finger fun!

it feels too daunting to use the Yoni Egg at first, try using one of your fingers! It’s small and will get direct feedback from your Yoni on how she reacts to this. if it’s a clear yes, try with two fingers.

activate all your senses and feel where the practice takes you next, whether it’s adding another finger or adding the Yoni Egg.

4. Practice meditations and connect!

when you need that extra oomph to get yourself in the mood and connected with your Yoni, try out some of my meditations designed specifically to guide you and your Yoni into a more open state.
it is vital to connect with your Yoni Egg before inserting it. and to connect with an intention for your Pussy time. questions you could answer for yourself are:

• what do I want from this?
• what is my intention?
• how does this serve my Higher Self?
• what do I want to experience?
• how am I feeling right now?

you can connect with your Yoni Egg by holding it in your hands and setting an intention for your practice. or by putting in on your belly and setting an intention.

this allows the Yoni Egg to warm up a bit so that it doesn’t surprise your Pussy with her coolness before entering. warm and cosy… this allows your Yoni to be ready to receive.

I strongly recommend to cleanse your Yoni egg before and after use.

5. Explore! And set the mood!

put on some sexy music if it puts you in a more sensuous and curious mood, turn the lights down, have your imagination fantasies ready – whatever floats your boat! set the space in a way that makes you feel safe and comfortable. ideally somewhere and sometime where you know you will be disturbance-free, so that you and your Yoni can get some one-on-one time together.

allow yourself to dance, or even move your body in ways that make you feel alive. or if moving your body is not your shtick, grab one of my meditations and a comfy pillow, and allow my voice to guide you into yourself.
this is an amazing way to get to know your body better, to learn more about what you like and what turns you on, and to start exploring yourself in new ways.

6. What’s the rush?

take it slow. there is no rush. the more your body feels rushed, the more tense it will be. don’t force it. if it hurts too much and your Yoni is giving you a clear no, maybe she’s not ready for it yet or this may be your first time attempting to connect with her and she perhaps needs to be massaged first or connected with in other ways – respect her NO and do not force it in. this is about YOU and your process. not anybody else’s.

don’t forget to keep checking in with your Yoni and how she feels.

it’s important to understand that how you treat yourself imprints your body, so going at this practice with deep respect, curiosity and love is optimal.
by going slow and not rushing your body, you will build a sensual, pleasure-filled and trusting relationship with it for years to come!
as always, if there are any burning questions feel free to reach out to moi with all your scrumptious curiosity!

honour your Yoni
stay pleasure-filled,

your Violeta Labella

p.s. you need to be minimum 18 to purchase a Yoni Egg at Yoni Egg Rocks